Another Muslim myth busted.

When the issue of polygamy comes up, occasionally you will hear it defended with “A Muslim may marry as many wives as he can treat fairly with respect to each other and as no one can treat more than one wife fairly, Mohamed meant only one.” Seriously. I have read and heard that one more than once.

It is nicely busted right out of the water by this fatwa found by our own Grace (URL figured out by jdamn)

Does a man have to treat his co-wives equally in terms of gift-giving and intimacy?

Praise be to Allaah.

Ibn Qudaamah said:

He does not have to treat his co-wives equally in terms of spending and clothing, so long as he does what he is obliged to do with regard to each of them.

Ahmad said concerning a man who had two wives: he has the right to favour one of them in terms of spending, intimacy and clothing, so long as the other has enough. He may buy for one of them clothing of a higher quality than for the other, so long as the other has enough. This is because treating them equally in all these matters is too difficult, and if it were obligatory then he would only be able to do it with great difficulty. So he does not have to do it, as is the case in treating them all equally with regard to intimacy.

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Canadian artist and counter-jihad and freedom of speech activist as well as devout Schrödinger's catholic

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